A couple mornings ago, I woke up to an email message from a complete stranger.  I had made a comment in support of his particular group, which I am not a part of.  Luckily for the peace of my morning, this young man was pleased with what I had said and was complimentary to the point of making me blush.  It really put a great feel onto my day!

This morning, doing my regular perusal online for anything new in machine embroidery or for making quilts, I came across several items that seem to be tweaking my nose.  No, I’m not paranoid!  But, I do a lot of writing for both, and I have been seeing a large response in opposing viewpoints.  I really don’t mind, because I know that my way isn’t the only way.  Unfortunately, those who are responding to my writing either feel that there is only their way, or that I have insulted them.  If I didn’t care so much about teaching the many ways sewing, quilting and embroidery, it would be amusing.

One of the responses was so inflaming and insulting to me, that the site owner actually removed that post and any that had responded to it; unfortunately, a copy of them all hit my inbox.  What this woman was telling me was that she is an expert and I was wrong, even though my only advice had been about something that truly does work well for me.  Unless something is dangerous, that’s the only type of advice I give.  Honestly.
When it comes to embroidery or making quilts, I am always stressing that the words always and never should never be used and always be ignored.  I look at my techniques and methods as a No Nonsense approach.  If a less expensive product works for you, it would be nonsense to insist on a more expensive one.  If one technique is too difficult for you, it would be nonsense to not learn a different way to get to the same result.  I honestly just don’t have time for the nonsensical, unless I’m watching a comedian!

When I learn a new hobby, I tend to pick up information from several different sources.  Some instruction seems nonsensical to me, while other information fits the way I like to do things.  Neither is right or wrong, just different.  Although I teach, if I can’t quite get the result I want, I will take a class on a technique that will get me there.  While I usually end up modifying the technique after class, I’m always grateful for the ability to learn.  I don’t then turn around and tell the teacher she is doing it wrong.

If you’re learning a new hobby like machine embroidery or embroidery quilting, or even cooking or auto mechanics, find a source that you feel comfortable with to learn the basics.  Once you’ve got the basics down, branch out to other sources.  Not only will you learn new techniques for advanced results, but you’ll also be introduced to new ways to complete the basics.

And, always remember that different people have different ideas of the right way to do things.  Don’t get sucked into their drama.  Instead, learn from what each of them says.  Never relegate yourself to only one style or technique.  Making quilts, machine embroidery, painting and more are all forms of art!  Make your art your way!